tHE FIRST ANNIVERSARY

Semalam, 14 hb ulangtahun perkahiwnan gua yang pertama. To think about it, I don’t think I’ll ever pass that moment.
Its always a ridiculous idea..for me- to get married. At first and up until now i think)I mean…. im fat, and old, and weird, and penniless and i drive motorcycle to work. (but yes im exaggerate a bit..i dont think im that bad u know lol) The thought of me getting married itself is chaos man…or in a very appropirate way to say it..who the fuck wants to marry me haha. But someone does. The rest is history…..

So far its ok…Im still learning to be a husband (neverthelsee a good husband) and now I should learn how to be a good father….Its weird too to think of that .
When people ask..how married life? How do u feel to get married? And now how to du feel to be a father..the answer will always be the same. “Its ok” And u may go like “just ok?” Well what do they expect? For me to say its brilliant? Its superb?..its ok. Yes its just ok cause that’s the honest answer I can give u….I don’t have any other things to say anyway. Its ok. I cant complaint. Its all good.

Actually me and my wife is 2 different person. Im a bit artsy, and shes none. Im indoor guy and she like to go camping and stuff. I’m a Star Wars guy and shes Lord of The Ring girl. I like radiohead and she likes ..err I don’t know. I dreams to be a writer and she wants to be a fashion designer . She likes fantasy movie while Im a sucker for silly comedy. But of course theres something we share interest…..errr…let me think of something ok. I mean there must be something we both like together, right. ….err oh yes. We like to karaoke sing. :D

Of couse theres a moment when I miss my bujang years….but lets don’t go into there.

How do I rate my life after marriage? Oh then is cool would be the answer. Most people ..and im not just saying artist, local artist.normal people like we us all…we also fight with our couple, we yell at each other….but that’s never happen to me and Jaja. Not now and I hope not ever. Jaja is a cool wife. She knows when to silence….and she knows when to sleep. And that’s it. Nothing in between. We learn how to respect each others opinion and that’s the most important things in rerlation (or despite the fact that we both knew that we not beautiful people and we cant demand more is another contribution factor lol)
Im always open to any of her suggestion to make the wedding top of the world. But we never did. We respect each other. We believe in each other. We trust. I mean..i can just sms jaja and say that “saat balik lambat hari ni nak tgk wayang. Theres a new Adam Sandler movie in Cineleisure” and she would reply “ok”. A reply sms answer couldn’t be any cooler than that.
And in Sunday where she knows my routine Sunday morning Amcorp Mall.…and she never gustered about it. She just follow where I go. Tho I know..old LP’s and tin toy is not her passion.
I can buy anything I want and she never complaint that it wasted money….
Yes respect is the big key…
So far I cant complaint…
Were doing good.
I know I know…the big is coming now..with the born of Naufal..its going to be another different matter. Another new task to deal..but I think we both can handle it.
So far I cant complaint. Were doing what a husband and wife relationship should be….minding our own business lol. Were doing good.

I hope Jaja would say the same .